"When We raise a kids,We begin with externally oriented little children who learn their values and all other things from the important people in their lives. "

 In process of helping them to grow up , We can move from controlling statements like "Do as you are told" to  empower statements "Think for yourself" . Parents nudge their children toward becoming internally motivated adults who think for themselves, who trust themselves, and who have high self-esteem and personal power.




Here are suggestions to nurture the inner development of your kids.

👉  Develop and Enjoy the bond of love between you and your kids.

👉  Accept them as they are (Though not necessarily all of their behaviors). Give them permission to             be  individuals. Provide understanding ,support and nurturing.

👉   Listen to their  experiences , stories, and opinions.

👉  Offer them choices for their matters for decision making power development.   like would you  like your birthday party at home for in the part this year?

👉  Use assertive communication instead of games  and manipulation.

👉  Accept and understand their needs and feelings.  Your children are unique beings with their own ideas and desires.   

👉  Encourage your children to go after what they want. Goal Setting in little things teaches them important skill they will need later in life.

👉  Give your kids box of stars,so they can be in charge of rewarding themselves.

👉  Support and encourage healthy exploration of their world,while setting reasonable and healthy time limits.

👉  Encourage them to think for themselves , to make decisions and goals based on what they want and need, what they think is best.If  "everybody's doing it," assist your kids in sorting out the situation and consequences,and help them decide what they feel is right.

👉  Use the natural-and -logical -consequences style of discipline. It teaches children to figure things out , to think for themselves, and to become self -disciplined. 

👉  Use more encouragement and less praise.Praise is a verbal reward that shows children that they are pleasing to others. Encouragement motivates them from within-from being pleased with themselves.They gain higher self-esteem directly from the experience.

👉  Honor their separateness from you. When possible let them do things their own way, Give them permission to be individuals.Let them teach you.  

👉   Give both boys and girls the same empowering messages. Girls have a greater tenancy towards learned helplessness, which is detrimental  to self-esteem and success in later in life.

👉  Encourage your kids to take quite time in the afternoon. They may complain of boredom at first. That's okay. A classmate once pointed out that the most creative and best times of her childhood came shortly after she announced that she was bored. She had to look inside her-self for entertainment 

        You can foster growth in your kids as you cultivate it in yourself .As you get in touch with your own inner wisdom, you can trust that it will guide you in the fine art of parenting. Your family can become one of centered individuals, each leading interesting and healthy lives.